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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I was bawling my eyes out in the car and he did not even take my hand. He kept saying I should be thankful to have Ivf as an option and life isn’t fair and I have a mental problem and I’m making myself miserable, [/quote]

Either you are not telling us the whole story or you should get a divorce. No one says you have a mental problem for crying over infertility. If he were that crazy you'd have a million other examples.

My bet is you are picking and choosing what to share with us.

If I am wrong, my apologies, and you are married to a crazy person.[/quote]

This is OP. I have been sad about not having children for a few years now and we have had heated arguments as we delayed TTC as he was not ready financially/emotionally for a few years. The ongoing fertility struggles have made me feel bitter and angry. [/quote]

I bet when you wanted to try he said "we can just have kids later" and now that you can't, he says "we can just do IVF" and will be just as unsupportive when problems arise with that. Do you really want to be with this man? [/quote]

Op here. I’m just so aghast because I never mislead him about wanting children. I was a nanny when we met!!! All I talked about was children!! He thought it was so cute! And then we got married and he said we were not in a position to have children and we wait. I don’t want to force a man to have children so I waited. Now we have been TTC for a year and my friends are all on their second babies and our younger siblings are having their firsts.

Everyone is having a a baby a few months after their wedding. My head spins as that’s what I deeply craved and was denied! And I stayed!! And I can’t stop bawling. And he is disregarding my feelings now just as he did back then.[/quote]

So you and him agreed to have kids later, but now you are angry and bitter?
Why did you not divorce when he said to wait?

Now that things are not working out you want him to beg you while you cry and accused him.

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