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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a woman and I can empathize with him.  He's probably stressed about having kids and knows how it jmpacts you.  He's helpless to do anything and your tears are a reminder that he can't do anything.  Maybe a stretch, but he wants to "fix it".  He can't and that causes frustration.  Your crying and inability to control your emotions makes it worse.  I'm a bit like this and have to fight the urge to show my frustrations with my family too.  [b]Crying solves nothing OP.  The situation sucks, but really what are you to accomplish by crying?  As I tell my kids "crying doesn't solve the problem.  Figure out what does and work on that."[/b]  My suggestion is to be solution oriented not victim oriented.  He might respond much more sensitively to rationality.  I would.[/quote]

Crying is the healthiest way for a human being to discharge intense emotional energy. Crying is a gift from God or the wise universe, especially in situations when doing something about a problem is out of one’s hands.

Go have a good sob OP, get the pain out. Your husband is likely very sad too but as a man he has been socialized not to cry and covers up the pain with anger.[/quote]

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