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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is not your place to say anything here unless she asks for your advice.  Everything you've said here is about what you want for her or how you feel (ex.:  I feel she wants a ring).

Stop making up stuff about their relationship, how it's going, and what they are or are not doing.  You don't know and you haven't presented one fact.[/quote]

Well, i know her and all of us live in same town so see each other regularly.[/quote]

Regardless of how often you see each other or how well you know each other, it is still not your place to say anything unless she asks for your opinion.  It is her life, not yours.  Let her make her own choices [/quote]

That's what I've been doing so far, hence the original post asking about appropriateness of saying something. Only thinking of saying something now as she is about to give up her state, condo, family, friends, current office, colleagues, gym, PCP, dentist, hairdresser and a whole lot more to move for his research and degree. All that without a proper commitment. Love is priceless but she may end up paying a huge price for love. For starters, they are moving from to a state with higher state income tax, higher property tax, higher housing prices, high cost of living etc.[/quote]

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