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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Only difference is men consider affairs a side hustle and women an exit strategy.[/quote]

Yep. Pump and dump is the man AP’s strategy.  [/quote]

Yet this forum is full of sad stories about DHs who left for the AP. This is especially common when the DH is middle aged and the AP is younger and beautiful. [/quote]

99% of those stories, the guy hasn't left. He's begging to stay.[/quote]

PP can you link to these stories? I can't recall seeing any. I mean, obviously I know it happens, but I think for every married male who leaves for his affair partner, there are dozens of sad mistresses wishing it would happen for them too.

I would say, to crudely generalize and stick to hetero gender norms (which a lot of our biology dictates), men generally want the affair AND the marriage, and women want a better provider/partner. I do recall reading a lot of stories where an affair has two married partners, and the woman leaves her husband and the man stays with his wife. And she's always saying, "Why isn't he leaving? He says he's just as unhappy as I was." Good luck with that, honey.[/quote]

That person stated that 99% of the time he's begging his wife to let him stay...not the AP.[/quote]

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