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[quote=Anonymous]Hmmm I feel like the responses here aren’t particularly helpful for your situation. Some posters are answering your question - ie spilling their “secrets” - but if their secret is only having one kid, I don’t see how that helps you.

Other PPs are critiquing your day, like the meal stuff, which might be helpful to you, but sometimes life is what it is. If you really can’t get around making 3 meals a night, you know what you have to do - either simplify it enough where it’s not a burden (microwaveable meals, kids make their own meal, whatever) or outsource to a paid person.

I have four kids and am early-mid 40s. I’d say my energy level is where yours is.

Some suggestions -

I am comfortable saying no. Saying no to my kids, to the PTA, to other moms. It sucks to not be able to do “all the things” but I just don’t have the bandwidth.

In the past we have hired college aged folks to help us logistically get kids to and from sports / activities. We also pick sports and activities that are nearby and easy to manage.

I wish we ate better but we don’t. I have stopped worrying if my kid occasionally has cereal or waffles for dinner.  I have a picky eater who eats more chicken nuggets than I ever have. The kids go to a school that has a wide variety to healthy lunch options, so I know they do get some healthy stuff in every day.

My kids are younger than yours but they go to bed at 730. That lets me have some “me time” at night, where I can workout or, more realistically, snuggle up with DH and watch a show. 
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