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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the difference is teaching kids at age-appropriate times in their lives and then letting them take the lead. So maybe you pack for them when they're young, then explain it to them how you decide how many outfits to pack in elementary school, then have them lay out what they want to take in mid-late elementary and by 7th or 8th grade, they know how to pack for themselves. [/quote]

This.  I'd always packed my kids, but this summer I realized they were old enough to help a lot more with this process.  They are 6 and 9.  The 9 year old packed herself for the beach (admittedly, this is easy, mostly bathing suits and pajamas) and followed a list I gave her.  6 year old did it with me telling him what to grab, but him making all the choices.

For a European trip I might be more hands on because it's different than going to the beach in the car.  You want to pack for the weather and activities.  But beyond some general advice (bring a warm layer, some pants, comfortable walking shoes), I would not be double checking a teenagers bag.  I would tell them if they are allowed to check a bag or not.  [/quote]

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