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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t. I’m a nurse and even the fancy places are a crap shoot. If it gets to the point that I can’t take care of myself, I rather peace out and not be a burden to my loved ones and/or live in any type of long term facility. [/quote] Your body doesn't let you die when you decide to die, absent a suicide. Therein lies the problem. You may want to peace out but your body is still hanging around, refusing to let go. [/quote] Yes in cases of dementia. But I’m talking about deciding not to proceed with care and if needed, leave on my own terms if I’m cognizant things will get worse. And if I can’t make the decision-I have an Advance Directive/living will. Don’t prolong my life if my quality of life is going to suck. Don’t put feeding tube in just to prolong the univetable if I’m old and demented. 40, have cancer, and to be here for my kids? Sure! This goes beyond just age. Some 80-90 year olds are spry and sharp. And some are just hanging on at a LTACH/hospital/nursing home bc family wants everything done. Don’t just have a financial plan. Have a discussion with family and have it in writting. [/quote]
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