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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know this ship has sailed for your sister but I’m saying this for other women in similar situations who may be reading this. But it is *really* bad idea to have 3 kids with a spouse like that. Having a large family to fill an emotional void for one parent is being so thoughtless of those kids. This situation would be much easier to manage with one kid. [/quote] I'm not in the same situation. My situation is a little different, and we have separated, but honestly, as someone whose spouse developed psychosis* years after my youngest was born, being told over and over again that my kids shouldn't exist doesn't make me feel safer or more likely to accept advice or take a chance on leaving. * In my case it was psychosis, but the same could be said for someone whose spouse developed an addiction, or a major mood disorder, or had a head injury, or a degenerative brain disorder. [/quote] PP, here. Thank for your message - I apologize for what I wrote above. That was not very sensitive. [/quote]
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