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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DS working on finalizing top 10 EC/activities it in the (50/100/150 characters format) and then top 5 awards…. DS hearing his friends (private school) talking about a LOT of embellishment…with the EC (unique non-school) and one off awards. How common is this? Isn’t someone checking?[/quote] [b]Unique ECs and awards are not embellishment.They are just unique. "Embellishment" is usually a way people like to gloss over lying. Don't lie[/b].[/quote] Exactly! Only rich people are allowed to lie..err. embellish..err.. do 'unique' activities and get 'unique' awards. Plebes shouldn't follow their example! :lol: :lol: There are prep schools around here for AAP where kids as young as KG attend weekly classes, participate in "unique" activities and get awards. Parents include those awards in their statement that accompanies the application packet. What PP is describing are just somewhat grown up, private school versions of the same thing. Make sh*t up, just make sure the hours tally. The best way to get rid of nonsense (e.g. ECs) is to make them meaningless by cheating. Same goes for essays. Use ChatGPT or other AI to write the essays. If all essays are done well, they stop becoming a differentiator that only rich people with access to paid professionals have access to. Tear down those walls![/quote] It's sad how you try to justify cheating in the name of revolution for the people. That takes some kind of boldness and arrogance, frankly. You don't have to be rich to have unique ECs. My kids do. They can even be service oriented. Brainstorm. Get creative. My kids have done some unique things and have done some things that were costly, but we got financial aid to help do it. So, middle class people, check out these opportunities, and ask about financial aid. Sure, rich people have more options, but AOs know that. Don't equate inequity with cheating. Advocating making up ECs or Chat GPT essays is cheating. It stinks that rich kids have opportunities that my kid doesn't have, but it REALLY stinks (& hurts my kid) when you help your kid cheat and encourage others to do the same.[/quote] Lady. Chill! ECs and essays are the equivalent of a firewalled institution (that you subsidize) asking you if you rub your belly and bark like a dog twice a day. You are saying that you should train your kids to do that and answer honestly that they did or didn't or did just once a day. I'm saying reject this nonsense and claim that you did it two or three times a day while doing whatever it is you want to do (or nothing at all). If everyone does this, that requirement is bound to die. That's all. Oh, if you really wanted to help you'd have said "My kids have done some unique things and have done some things that were costly, but we got financial aid to help do it [i]and here's what they did[/i]". Try that next time. [/quote]
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