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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They may enter college as “introverts” and completely change. My sister was a totally introverted nerd at 18. After college, she’s very social, the life of the party, and throws huge parties with her big friend group. I envy her friend group. You never know what a 19 yr old will be like in 10 years. [/quote]

This.  I have known "introverts" who never found their crowd in middle and high school.  They were awkward and self-conscious because they were different from everyone else.  They got to college and found their niche with friends who were similar and appreciated them and they blossomed into extroverted people once they found out that they weren't just "weird".  And others who were self-conscious about their looks, but as they matured, they either developed or become less self-conscious about their looks and became more outward-going.

OP, do not say anything now.  It's very premature and they have a lot of maturing and growth so you never know how they'll turn out or if they'll stay together.  Let nature take its course and let them learn about themselves before you poison the well.[/quote]

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