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Two pages in and I don't think I've seen the one thing that usually appears on threads with this question:

What would YOU want to happen if your close friend knew for sure your DH were cheating? For sure, like you say you know for sure?

I'm on Team Tell Her, myself. Think about this: If he's cheating he may bring home an STD and infect her. Or he may be planning to divorce and hiding that from her until he springs it, and she would be blindsided (and wouldn't have as much time as he's gotten to get ready to divorce, protect finances etc.). If you have real information I'd tell her if I were in your shoes.

As others note, you may be risking the friendship by doing so but can you live with the knowledge you have, kept locked in? [/quote]

This. I would want to know. I would be so sad if a good friend knew and didn’t tell me. That being said, you should approach it in a way that gives your friend an “out” in case she knows and would be embarrassed if she knew you knew and she didn’t care. [/quote]

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