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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean, you're basically only living together for financial reasons and for your kid.  You need to act like you guys are already separated.  And perhaps get some therapy for yourself.  [/quote]

For sure.  It’s SO hard to find a decent therapist.  I had amazing one before COVID and had so much positive momentum but she moved from the area and I’ve tried at least 6 more since and it’s just SO hard to click with someone, especially when so many want to only be online.

I really appreciate your reply, though.  And your kindness.  And just to be a little defensive, I’m not staying for the money like he’s rich or something,  we’re just both middle aged government workers who for different reasons came to our marriage in our 40’s with nearly no assets and some debt.  It’s only having the one household that gives us the luxury of not stressing about basic bills and camp and a vacation each year.  I know it’s not a great trade off, this half life of a relationship, but I still have a lot of scars from a childhood with so much financial insecurity and instability, and it’s really been a luxury to breathe and not worry about money constantly.

Anyway, thanks for the understanding.  [/quote]
If you had a great therapist you clicked with, track him/her down and do virtual asap!

Also re-read your posts. This life is not work more time with your kid or money. It’s a miserable existence. 50% less time but with a happy mom would be worth a lot more than the time you have now with your child. Screenshot and save it all and get out. [/quote]

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