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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like there is something going on with your husband that your are completely oblivious to, OP.  You say he's done these things in the past and you didn't even get so much as a goodnight from him.  You say he blew through his money this month and said 'These are stressful times'.  You also make mention of your baby.  Is this your first child?  Have you suddenly become a SAHM or is he having trouble sharing your attention while you care for the baby and juggle a career?  Sounds like there is more to the story.  I'm the PP that said that you need to communicate what you want.  Sounds like your DH also needs to communicate something to you as well.

This might be a symptom of something bigger.[/quote]

Agreed. You sound clueless. This is not a man who forgets your birthday every year. He got you tulips for V-Day and made you a special dinner last year. WAKE UP, something is wrong, something is off. Don't bring up the birthday thing again. I would shut up for a few days and watch. Has something changed? Does he seem different? Sit down and initiate a judgment free conversation. Say he sounds stressed. Say you support him and you want to make sure you are doing that. Ask him if he feels fine. Ask him about the state of your marriage.

I just get a vibe from this post. In 3 years, the OP could be looking back on these incidents as a precusor to a mid-life-crisis or affair.[/quote]

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