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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you okay with them decluttering your home during a visit based on what they consider unnecessary or an unwanted nic nack?

[b]Personally if anyone came into my home and went through it uninvited[/b] and threw out my belongings because to them they were too tacky or too old or unnecessary, they wouldn't be visiting again.

I doubt most of these posters telling you to go for it would be okay with their inlaws going through their houses and getting rid of stuff. [/quote]

That depends. Is there a group of people who have been staying there, invited, for the last 20 years, every other weekend -- so you are splitting the time with them 50-50, and they don't even really have space to unpack?

Moving things over to one side in that context doesn't really seem egregious. [/quote]

NP. Are you that poor, or that cheap, that you won’t pay for your own vacation house, or at least a rental? I would never in a million years stay in a cluttered dump like that more than twice a year. Why do you think you are entitled to use someone else’s vacation home, and then criticize it and get rid of their stuff without asking? You are so beyond rude and entitled. [/quote]

You ... think I'm OP?[/quote]

You…think it’s OK to do this under any circumstance? To accept an invitation to a vacation home and get rid of your hosts’ things without their permission? Yes or no. Yes or no.[/quote]

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