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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]100% in agreement that your wife gets to call the shots here, BUT also just to say that if she wants him to stay in your house and that's too much for you, it's okay for you to bail out for a couple of days and stay with friends/in a hotel. Just tell her calmly and sincerely that you support her efforts to repair the relationship with her father, but you find it too painful and raw right now to have him in your space. You might even tell her that if it goes well, you might reconsider in future. PP who made the crack about the FIL not being the kid's grandpa, wtf. Not okay.[/quote] I think this is a good idea. I would even consider taking your son with you and letting your wife and her dad spend time together and try to come to some sort of agreement on how he needs to accept, or at least respect, you and your son before she can continue a relationship with him. [/quote]
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