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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is such bullshit. Get rid of this bullshit so you can live a normal quiet happy life.
You don’t want this stupidity and drama of cheating and lying etc.
This is no way to live.
You know it. 
Get rid of this shit. Bye.
Sit by the pool and have a drink.[/quote]

+1.  My cheating ex followed the path described by the “regret not remorse” PP above.  He made a good game of showing how devastating being caught was and begging me to stay in the relationship, and I allowed that to go on for 2.5 years, hoping that it would turn to real remorse.  But, when I listened closely and kept track across time, it was clear that his remorse was only for the impact on himself.

I never wanted to have a third (adult) child. I didn’t want to be the policeman in the marriage. I thought about what I would tell my own daughter or son if they were in my situation. I never would have wanted them to have a life with someone who valued and respected them so little.  I took my own advice and ended the relationship.

Even continuing to be tied to him in parenting was tough because the same character flaws that made him cheat continued to affect his parenting and his willingness to be financially responsible w/ respect to his kids.

Because of that, each step I have taken away from him, brings more peace to my life.  (And to our kids as well, if whom I have full custody.)

OP, being single is never what we want or imagined when getting married, but is a far more peaceful and happy life for me and the kids to be away from him as much as possible. [/quote]

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