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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Same. I identify with everything you said.  I used to be social with various friend groups. I don’t know what happened…but it’s embarrassing. [b]Everyone is going out with friends and I’m always home alone.[/b] [/quote]

I don't think everyone is going out.  I could have written the OP's post and I very much agree that things changed during Covid and there are now a lot of very lonely and disconnected people.  (and yes, there are others who are very happy 
to no longer have social obligations).

I sometimes feel like I'm alone but then I look at my block.  I live in AU Park--neighborhood of families, kids, etc.  Known to be super social, etc.  Well, on a typical Friday or Saturday night EVERY single family on my block (10 families) is at home.  No one is 
entertaining.  I don't track the cars (no, I'm not a weird stalker) but I typically walk my dog around 7pm down the block and I know the cars (because I know the neighbors and day-after-day you know who drives what, etc).  Well there is no one coming or going (all cars are sitting in front of the homes) and no one is ever having a BBQ or back yard party.  We're all sitting in our homes.  
It's striking.  I really think people's socializing has been dialed way back over the past 2-3 years (by choice or not by choice)
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That’s just your weird block.  Everyone I know is out all three days of the weekend including us[/quote]

I cannot relate. That sounds horrible to be out every night like that at this age. Are you in your 20’s? [/quote]

DP. In my late 30’s and have some social activity going on both days almost every weekend, not 3 days every weekend like PP, and you get used to it. It’s better than being alone and worth it to socialize our kids.[/quote]

Do you not enjoy being alone? An ideal weekend for me would be to have dinner/drinks with a few close girlfriends and then one night alone or with DH watching movies and connecting.

Three days of weekend socializing would tap me out, and other areas of my life would feel neglected. [/quote]

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