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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, what matters is you are divorced. Forget the focus on the other stuff .. you say fancy-this, fancy-that, kids, achievements, clubs, neighborhoods, whatever. You have it wrong. None of that matters. It will matter that you are divorced. Recently divorced. Talk with them about that, right up-front. Sorry, but you need to lead with that. A few sentences. That's it. Then, do not dwell on it. Enjoy your friends. That should be something you can do. Work to enjoy your friends.[/quote] I think this is key. I would also have a plan in case you want to leave. On the plus side, I'm in my 50s and lots of people I knew got divorced in their 40s or after about 20 years of marriage. Your friend's dhs may have recently divorced male friends as well. [/quote]
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