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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I hear you & I understand. I get the "be right or be happy," but you'll end up walking on eggshells to avoid setting him off. For a twist, I'm your DH in this scenario (well, I'm actually the wife, but YKWIM). Married 30+ years, kids grown, and I only now can recognize myself in what you describe. When I was similarly pissy and confrontational with my spouse, it was 100% control issues and wanting not to feel stupid. I don't know how to explain it except to say that, after many decades of marriage, we've worked through those early years of miscommunication - and I've apologized for my part in complicating our conversations. This isn't too say my DH was never complicit; he would absolutely misrepresent things, but it was never out of malice.[/quote]
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