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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree with everyone else who says you shouldn’t let this woman take up space in your brain, but I also totally understand wanting to look your best in this situation. Here’s what I’d do - adjust to your budget, style, etc.

I’d go with a linen or cotton oversized button-down shirt, like the Deep End style from AYR or similar, in a cornflower or other medium blue. Not light blue or cobalt, as pastels and jewel tones aren’t as universally flattering as colors in the middle of the spectrum. If you’re tan or have a darker skin tone, white is another option. Avoid white if you have a lot of redness in your complexion.

On the bottom, wear flattering shorts with a slightly longer (but not too long) inseam. You probably know which style of shorts look best on you. For example, I love pleated, high-waist shorts because they emphasize my waist and enhance my hourglass shape. I look terrible in straighter styles since they flatten my butt. If you don’t know which shorts look good on you, try on a bunch of different pairs, take pictures, then compare. Ask for brutal honesty from someone you trust. For material, white or medium denim is always classic. Linen is lovely but wrinkles easily. Matching sets are chic, though, so consider linen shorts if you’re going with a linen top and don’t think you’ll get too wrinkled. Tuck in that shirt and emphasize your waist with a high-quality brown leather belt. You can find excellent belts on Poshmark (I’m a huge fan of vintage Coach leather belts) or purchase new (my favorite is B-Low the Belt, but steer clear of their super trendy styles). Wear leather sandals that coordinate with but do not exactly match your belt (love Sarah Flint’s Grear sandals, any sandals from
Dear Frances, and have my eye on J.Crew’s padded Menorca sandals in brown). Carry a brown leather tote (I love Dragon Diffusion or similar for summer) and you’ll instantly look more put together than anyone carrying a nylon backpack or something utilitarian. Choose sunglasses that are flattering to your face but are not black, which is too harsh for most. Make sure your jewelry and clothing is clean and your shoes and bag are clean and conditioned. If you don’t have simple, high-quality jewelry, don’t wear any. Leave the statement pieces at home as it’ll look like you’re trying too hard.

Clean, neat hair and tidy nails that are buffed or polished in a neutral color pull together a look. If you have time to whiten your teeth, do it, even if you can only use a few strips. I also love using Tan Luxe drops during the summer, but just a bit every two or so days so the color doesn’t look fake. It’s summer, so keep your makeup light if you wear it - think tinted moisturizer, dark brown mascara, a tinted lip balm, etc.

Avoid at all costs: synthetic materials that will make you sweat, athleisure, over-the-top jewelry, faux leather shoes or bags, and any clothing that doesn’t fit you well and/or makes you feel uncomfortable. Don’t overdo your hair or make up.

I understand wanting to look your best in a situation that makes you nervous or feel off balance. Please realize that her bullying behavior has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her. You can be a tall, slim, beautiful, rich, intelligent, and incredibly chic woman and a bully would still find something to pick apart. If she says anything inappropriate or rude, know that everyone around will judge her for her poor behavior. Silence and a pointed look are often the best response to rudeness.  [/quote]

Excellent advice! [/quote]

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