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[quote=Anonymous]As a betrayed wife- I needed the truth.  I needed to know what is being said in confidence isn’t totally different than what is being said to me individually or in therapy together.

Betrayed spouses have already suffered a grave loss of trust.  They have been back-stabbed and blind-sided.  I couldn’t trust after discovery anything out if his mouth.  I’m supposed to take a liar’s word? In our case, there was also a mental health diagnosis and I needed facts and what that meant for potential relapse, recovery, etc.

His individual therapist actually requested to meet with me individually for essentially the same reason.  From the DSm test- we were dealing with someone high on the narcissism spectrum, with a lot of childhood trauma.

I NEEDEd that information.

Frankly I’m pissed off therapists don’t have a duty to inform people when they know their health is at risk: from infidelity/cheating.  Instead they will listen for months on end to a  woman or man exhibiting risky behavior that is a threat to their spouse’s physical health- not to mention safety.[/quote]

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