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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I used to date guys at all attractiveness levels, focusing solely on character. To give you a sense of my range, I’ve been asked to model multiple times, usually by small businesses. I dated stellar guys—the ones I’ve kept up with are in very successful marriages. That doesn’t mean that they would have been in a good marriage with *me*. Being attracted to someone is a necessary part of a good marriage because people are human and will let you down. Wanting to get dirty with them pulls you back together.

My spouse and I toyed with letting a homeless friend move in with us and decided to limit the offer to the short-term. It’s just impossible to keep those positive feelings about someone you’re sharing a space with unless they’re constantly walking on eggshells with each other or sleeping together. We don’t want either of those conditions to apply to the friendship, and our finances only let us help so much.

I’m very pro-marriage, and I think you should try, but I don’t have a lot of hope for you. From my experience, I needed to be thrilled about my partner’s character AND looks, but you didn’t seem to be thrilled about either. What’s left?[/quote]

This. Getting dirty? Toying with homeless ? [/quote]

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