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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do understand where you're coming from, and there's some good advice above. I'm sorry that it didn't go as planned. But in the moment, after a quick "wtf, I really wanted a good table" there's nothing to do but enjoy the night, and find a spot to enjoy the view for a few minutes after the meal. Find a way to turn it around, laugh at it, and don't let it ruin the fact that you have a babysitter and alone time and a peaceful evening. I also want DH to be more outraged sometimes at things, and share in my WTF moment even just briefly, but he's just not. Even with legit big things (as opposed to a disappointing table). [b]It's definitely healthier for me to find ways to move on than for him to find a way to be outraged.[/b] [/quote] This is right. OP, why do you want your husband to be dragged down? Maybe, instead, seek his help in reaching that chill place that can accept relatively minor disappointments with grace and perspective.[/quote]
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