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[quote=Anonymous]Op if I’m correct you have posted before about feeling envy and resentment. You both made choices and here you are. You have another choice ahead of you which is how you are going to move forward. You can divorce because your resentment will eat you up: you can accept a reality that many couples face and with through:’or you can stay stuck and create misery.

I have compassion for people suffering infertility but not for those blaming others for their choices.

Two academic parents is a wonderful recipe for stable family and flexibility. Plenty of ppl have kids with little money. You don’t need a big house for a baby. Both dh and I were in our late 30s/40s working in non profits when we had kids. I had kids at 38/40 as well. You have options but until you see a trherapist and accept your role in this and see past the resentment and grief you will be stuck. You may be disappointed that you did not marry a high earner but that’s not his fault and what does that say about you and why do you think blaming your spouse is productive in any way? Sounds to me like You are not asking him to handle your grief so much as to keep taking blame. There is no solution here,  o upside for either one of you. [/quote]

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