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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with PP who questions what she means and why at 4 this is something she's noticing or talking about. At 4 is she's gone in 4 vacations and maybe remembers 2 of them, [b]who is telling her she doesn't vacation enough[/b]? At that age vacation was exciting to me because we got to bring sugary cereal in a cooler and swim in a hotel pool.

Reinforce your families expectations when she talks about it "we'll plan a nice trip for next summer."

Meanwhile, maybe she does enjoy adventures and new activities. Figure out what those activities are and plan fun day trips - hiking with a picnic, museum with a stop for ice cream, local pool etc. [/quote]

By 4 my kids were well aware of what friends at school were doing in terms of travel. People in this area seem to travel a LOT and kids come to school with stories about the Bahamas and Disney and Europe and everywhere else. [/quote]

+1.  I suspect it’s this OP.  Young kids like to talk.  Teachers ask kids what they did over break, etc…

We prioritize traveling over things and realize not everyone can travel.  This school year we have traveled more than we normally do.  We discussed with DS that not everyone can travel and not to volunteer travel plans, etc.. unless asked.  It’s hard though when sometimes the kids miss a few days of school.[/quote]

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