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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I, too, went through infertility. I was diagnosed with stage iv endometriosis. Took years to become parents. My DH was the one who would lament our situation all the time. I was in place where I wanted to see the good in what we had, and he would constantly look at others and live a slow “death by comparison.” I was so exhausted those years, and really didn’t have the will to imagine life with a child -I was an afraid of the grief if that actually did not happen. My defense was to find what was good or easy about not having kids. My DH’s constantly reminding me that we were, indeed, dealing with infertility really got under my skin and caused a lot more unnecessary stress. I kept my mouth shut because I felt that everyone needed to process and grieve in their own ways. But, man, did I resent the hell out of it. [/quote]
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