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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  DC went to college in another city and found a job there after graduation.   she had a mental breakdown and took one year off during college.  Eventually she was able to manage her school work and also had a part time job.  Everything was great in 2018 k 19.  She had a job, an apartment, and friend s from college and work place.  She often came home during long weekends and holidays.   Unfortunately, she was hit hard by the pandemic, she lost her job and became less and less communicative.  Her therapist was also stopped seeing her bc of covid concern.  We supported her financially for two years.  Knowing her anxiety and mental issues, we gave her time and space for her to recover.  She has a job now and moved out from her apartment to a shared place.  As parents, we missed her and would like to see her reconnect with us.  
When we saw her last time, she talked about going to graduate school. 
If a private investigator can tell us she is having a [b]good job[/b] and live in a [b]decent place[/b], we will be happy for her.  
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If I was your child, I would not want to do anything with you. Good job and decent place? By whose standards? A lot of young people start with room share in not so perfect places. It does not mean that they are not productive members of society. You sound like a person who had a high expectations and your child probably feels like they did not meet them. Be happy for your child and leave them along. [/quote]

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