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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP -- is this a one-time thing, or does your DH frequently want to spend his free time with someone besides you and the kids? Your reaction seems strong, which I could understand if (1) DH ALWAYS spends his birthday with you and the kids or (2) if never being home has become his habit and you're sick of it. I suspect #2, since you mentioned that you're basically a single parent, taking care of the kids "by yourself" after work and on weekends.[/quote] OP, if this is the case then get thee to a marriage counselor or retreat ASAP if DH will go. This was part of our long slide of increasing disconnection by DH, we are now divorcing. He grabbed the next good thing that came along and bailed, he had put so little in for so long that it was no big deal to him. If your DH is really disconnected, then try to address it directly. If this is a one off thing then I think your language does sound a bit, I dunno, florid. [/quote]
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