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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]14:57 best answer I think I have ever seen on this forum.[/quote]

For those who are looking for a kindly worded rationalization of wrong behavior, it was perfect. [/quote]

I agree with you that we never really know what goes on in a marriage, but I also know that my dad's ultimately very public infidelity screwd up both of his kids, me especially.  Took me years to figure out what a good relationship was about.  Many people of my dad's generation would probably  tell you there was more to his story a la your post... (mom is no charmer) but I am fairly certain I was innocent here, and I was most certainly harmed.[/quote]

I'm in total agreement with you and not the original poster whose comments I described as a "kindly worded rationalization"--which I meant as just that, a rationalization. I have several close friends and a couple of family members who suffered terribly as a result of public affairs. One of the adulterers had two families--one secretly. I'm truly sorry for your pain and hope that you have found or will find someone who truly understands the word "commitment."[/quote]

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