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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm very pro working hard, being focused on career. That said, my kid with pretty minor SNs did not thrive in after care.  There are some kids with sensory needs, intensity needs, depression, anxiety, etc (basically, the pretty common SNs that kids have - probably impacting 10-15% of the population) really shouldn't be in a 10 hour school setting. My kid was a kid who needed to be picked up at 3 and decompress by himself at home.  In 5th grade now, and he's still very much that way, and not much into after school activities.  So dropping a kid in aftercare isn't just a "that's just what parents have to do" answer for these kids. And OP said her preschool kid has SNs. Sure, some parents have no choice. But reality is here that these parents DO have a choice.  So assuming the younger kid will struggle in all day childcare, your DH is essentially picking: his mental health or the kid's mental health. [/quote]

Well said PP.

People shouldn’t have to return to the pre-COVID dysfunction as if that’s the only option. [/quote]

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