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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Main character syndrome. No one cares what you do, promise.[/quote]
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Stop talking about anything personal at work. Seriously. [/quote]

This advice has to stop. The idea that work is work and home is home is unhealthy. Work is a huge part of life and you can’t be expected to turn on and off that way. There is nothing wrong with sharing what you did over the weekend with your coworkers and this advice is always said with animosity and judgment like the OP is complaining about in the first place.

OP: Certainly, it’s not everyone but one or a few people that you’re thinking about writing this post. These people will be there no matter what you do. I had kids at ages 27 and 31 and got comments. I bottle fed and I got comments. I put my kids in daycare and worked part-time and I got comments. I bought a house and I got comments. I didn’t manage to produce a male heir and I got comments.

It’s not your particular situation that receives judgement. It’s ALL SITUATIONS.

Just learn to shrug it off, and hopefully find someone else at work to whine to on the side so you can keep on that fake smile the next time some jerk makes a comment about some innocuous comment. [/quote]
Comments don’t mean animosity. You sound paranoid.[/quote]

Are this the same poster who writes “you sound” on every post on this board? [/quote]

You sound unhinged. [/quote]

So, yes?

Are you a fan of “What They Do in the Shadows”? [/quote]

I wrote that "sounds like" and no I do not write it every time.[/quote]

I wrote the "unhinged" one (tongue in cheek) because I see that comment constantly but I have never personally written that seriously. LOVE What they do in the Shadows.[/quote]

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