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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean, I would not say anything to your face, but privately, I would judge you, yes. I think it’s stupid to wait so late to have kids, and I think it’s possible with the help of family and partner to get a good career going and have kids earlier.   The “super planners” often have regrets later. [/quote]

This.  Don’t wait to have children. So many people have issues and it kills your spirit and sometimes the marriage.  The quality of your eggs drastically decreases at 30.  Visit the infertility and TTC boards on here. Aside from that - yes there’s probably some envy there but to be honest they wouldn’t trade their whole life, children and all, just to have your life.  It’s just a quick pang of wistfulness that is usually resolved in moments or once you get home and get a big hug or kiss from your kid.  Just ignore them but please note my advice. I want you to have what you want but nature is going to do its thing as you age. Good luck. [/quote]

You’re creepy. And I had kids in my 20’s. You’re probably a narcissist.[/quote]

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