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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What if she’s married but works for him and is 5-10 years younger? [/quote]

The colleague could be me. I’ve been married to my wife for several years now. I would have no interest in your husband/my colleague. [/quote]

Okay, what if she is straight and attractive? [/quote]

So what if she is? The question is why are you so insecure that you’re asking some anonymous board. Grow up. Either you trust him and the foundation of your marriage or you don’t. It’s just a drink. [/quote]

DH’s affair started with “just a drink.” Thought we had a great marriage. The trust is there until someone pulls the rug out from underneath you.[/quote]

So are you saying that telling your spouse that he couldn’t go out for a drink would have saved your marriage? If not, what ARE you saying?

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My DH was an adult with agency. He was going to do what he wanted to; however, I wish I had come to grips with the reality sooner, as in when little things started happening that struck me as off for him. Instead I told myself infidelity would never happen. Reading a PP say “grow up” and “it’s just a drink” sounds a lot like what a cheater would say to mask their behavior. [/quote]
+100[/quote]

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