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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] We have been waiting for them to grow out of the difficult time and come home again.  [/quote]

It's hard to say when you're only hearing one side of the story.

But this sentence is really giving me estranged parent vibes. I assume coming home again means coming back in to the family fold (and not actually moving physically home). You're putting all the blame on your DC, labeling them as being difficult, and waiting for them to pretty much get over it. Where are you in all of this? Also, saying that they are being difficult is not a specific complaint. Certainly no reason to send a PI after them. People are allowed to be difficult.

If you believe your DC is potentially in danger....and actually have something substantial to base that feeling on....then by all means, as a parent, make sure they are OK. There are many ways to do this...hiring a PI would have to be a last resort.

But I get the feeling the concern here is really that she cut communication with you. From your 2nd post, it sounds like DC has a job and is living with roommates. Sounds like they are doing well. So what exactly do you need a PI for?[/quote]

Do you have a young adult child? I do, and can appreciate this poor momma is worried sick.[/quote]

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