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[quote=Anonymous]Absolutely move. My parents divorced after we didn't want to move and my Dad commuted about 10 days a month. But it took a huge toll on their marriage. At first it worked, but we had activities that he wasn't there for, things added up that needed to be done around the house, weekends were tiring and stressful. They didn't have any time for them. We were PIA's to my mom when she was probably ultra stressed. It was NOT a good time. He quit his job and took a local job, but it was too late. He lost his dream job, we lost 2 parents in the same home. Nothing was ever the same for either of my parents. I regret not wanting to move all together. My therapist hears about it a lot. Your kids are in transition years at school and having lived in both areas, Boston very much has better schools. They shouldn't rule the house and they can adapt and since they are already in so many activities, will quickly make friends there. The family needs to be together and you can't do that being a part time Dad. It will take its toll on you and everyone else. [/quote]
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