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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m the PP whose child received the video. Just picked her up from last day of school and she’s bawling. Ringleader mean girl approached her in the lunch room, threw a paper at her and walked away. It’s a nasty break up letter about why all the three girls don’t like her and don’t intend to be her friend anymore.

I’m beside myself. Staying very calm and letting DD know she has support but internally I’m so upset for her. I don’t know what to do. [/quote]

I'm so sorry she's going through this, PP.

Make sure she knows that her worth is not determined by 3 mean girls. Send the videos/texts/letter to the school. If you know the parents, send it to them as well. Just as an FYI, with no expectation that anything will be done about it. Work with your daughter on expanding her friends group, identifying and seeking out new friends, and ignoring the mean girls. Make sure she understands not to give these girls power over her, her confidence, her emotions, her sense of self worth, and that the opposite of friend, is not enemy (in this context). These kids should cease to exist, as far as she's concerned. She doesn't know them, she doesn't see them, she doesn't acknowledge them - they're invisible.[/quote]

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