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[quote=Anonymous]I’d handle it by ending the relationship.  There are so many ways to say “I’ve talked with you.. I’m going to go sit and read my book or put on my headphones and listen to a podcast that I know you won’t care about” and get your time to cool down then by announcing “I need time to cool down” with the implication that you’d better not tell me anything until I deign to be ready to talk to you, and I control when that will be, there is nothing you can do or had better do until.. when exactly?  No jokes, no news you see on Facebook about a friend or family member, not “hey, I found tickets for something you’ve wanted to do, want to go?” nothing. I’d not want to be in a relationship with someone who can’t or won’t follow basic rules of interaction that we all should have learned in elementary school. It’s not so much wanting a break to process (though I do wonder what the heck you guys are arguing about that requires so much processing) but how that break is taken and why you can’t be nice to each other while processing. Life should provide enough breaks for you to process whatever you want without announcing to your partner that they’d better not so much as look at you until you’re ready.  
As my husband said, this nonsense may be why she’s single at 41, nobody else wants to deal with her either.

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