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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you should cave this year, but make it clear you won’t do this work next year. If you don’t cave this year, your mom will be the one hurt, not your siblings. And you created the precedent that you handle everything for them. You need to take ownership this year and then clearly tell your siblings you’re done for future years. [/quote] Op, if you're local to your mom, I kind of agree with this. In my family, I'd still get together for the birthday lunch/dinner, especially since the birthday trip was months ago. I wouldn't do another gift, although I would probably feel obligated to help pay for her meal. Just curious if you told your siblings you wouldn't be joining them for whatever they planned? [/quote]
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