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Reply to "If you're in a long term (15, 20+ year) marriage, what do you talk about with your spouse?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP: your DH sounds very anxious based on the long list of things he can’t/won’t talk about. I’d start there. How can he reduce his anxiety? I’ll also affirm for you that it’s unfair that he can’t/won’t discuss his job situation even though it’s negatively impacting your relationship. I highly recommend marriage therapy (Gottman helped us a lot). My DH is also anxious so I’ve found myself holding potentially anxiety producing things back until he can deal with them but we have tons of other things to talk about and we connect a lot throughout the day/week. [/quote]
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