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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would definitely talk to her! She is free to do it but she needs to go into it with her eyes open . Ask her if she is ready to face the possible embarrassment. Tell her it is entirely up to her and you will support her no matter what but [b]she needs to know what lies ahead[/b].[/quote] The problem is that well-meaning mom may not be the one to do this fairly. She has her own baggage and may unnecessarily burden her kid.[/quote] I don’t have this same baggage but I think what she described is very likely. Her DD won’t make the team. She may or may not become mean girls victim but she won’t make the team that’s for sure [/quote] Let her "not make the team." There is often more learning in failure than success. [/quote] What meant was let her find out herself. Sounds like OP has tried to get her help [/quote]
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