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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does he have ties with any other country besides the US? Does your child have another citizenship? 
If no and no, it’s relatively safe even if he gets the passport (which he cannot get without your notarized agreement anyway). 
However you still don’t have to agree, and there is a passport stop list you can put your kid on, but I don’t know the requirements for that.
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OP here.  It's no and no.

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PP who asked. I think you are pretty safe. I don’t see your ex taking your child to a country where your child could get stuck. Good luck! [/quote]

Ex has (and I wish I were kidding about this) a Canadian gf, so likely he'd to there.

Idk it's sounding like I should get the passport on my own and just keep it from him, so he cannot get one with a faked notarized consent.  [/quote]

You'll have to get his own notarized form or have him go with you to get it, but yes, get one. Be SURE it's sent to you and not him but also be sure there's no way he can go into State's website and "correct" the  passport application to have it mailed to HIS address instead of your own. In fact I'd take measures to ensure he could not do that, could not steal it from your mailbox, and could never steal it from your home--keep it in a safe deposit box, not in your house at all.

Meanwhile, OP, do be sure others besides you are aware of all his rants etc. You don't want to be the sole person saying, "He kept harping on the belief he was being pursued by the government." Documenting can feel like you're doing nothing concrete, but over time it gives you a sense that if something does happen, you and those you tell will have some idea of his patterns and intent. [/quote]

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