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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would definitely talk to her! She is free to do it but she needs to go into it with her eyes open . Ask her if she is ready to [b]face the possible embarrassment[/b]. Tell her it is entirely up to her and you will support her no matter what but she needs to know what lies ahead.[/quote] Why is it embarrassing to try out for a team and not be good enough to make it? Why would you tell a child this is how this situation should feel? Why not frame it as I know a lot of the girls are good at volleyball so go in and do your best and see what happens. You'll get an idea where you stand and we're very supportive of helping you practice and improve if that's what you want.[/quote]
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