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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I regret the affair, but not because of how it ended (and in my case, it ended really violently, and there is a restraining order in place so that [b]we[/b] don’t contact each other again).

I regret not having the emotional skills to identify and address my own issues. All the affair did was exacerbate an already bad situation, and the whole thing could have been avoided, had I been a more emotionally developed person.

I don’t feel like a whore, because I didn’t take money or anything of value in exchange for sex. We were both lying, because affairs are lies, but I wasn’t being used for sex. The whole thing would have been easier to end had it just been sex.[/quote]

We?  Is it against you?  You were dumped?  Were you both married??[/quote]

No it’s against him. But I have no desire to contact him. I ended it. He took the breakup badly.[/quote]

Did you have any inkling that he might turn violent? Was his messiness a surprise?[/quote]

I knew it would be messy. That’s what kept me in the affair for so long. I was scared of what he would do if I ended it.[/quote]

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