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Reply to "Why isn’t it socially acceptable to say that you regret having kids?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have less problem with the sentiment and more with how it is expressed and how self-referential a worldview this expression reflects. Once a child is born, it’s not yours to regret—they are their own person, not tantamount to a house you now have buyers remorse for purchasing. I think if folks expressed it “I regret not anticipating how difficult parenting would be for me” or “I am saddened by how much of parenting I dislike” or even “I’m embarrassed by how much I resent the sacrifices of being a parent” it would be much more sympathetic and much less dehumanizing for the kid.[/quote] I don't think saying "I regret having kids" is any more self-referential than actually having kids, or saying you are happy you had kids for that matter. [/quote]
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