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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, such judgmental people. I came here for advice, not to be judged. And like I said, there is a LOT more to this woman and her family. If you knew ALL the details, you'd agree to stay far away from them. HALF sibling or not, I do not want my child exposed to any of them. Period. Yes, we all feel sorry for her child, and it is a difficult situation, especially if it IS his child, but if he were to become involved it would mean constant harassment, 'we need this', 'we need that' - from her and her family, and the conditions put on him to see his child would be complete chaos in his life and that of the child.

That is his decision, not mine. Whether I agree with him or not, is not up to me. It's his. And I have to support whatever he chooses to do.

Her family being nice and friendly? All they see him is a big fat paycheck. He actually was willing to to allow her husband to adopt the child as his own, which her husband wants. She said nope, she wants the money. So it's not about the child's best interest to her and her family, it's the money. He had even said, if it is his child and the new husband wants to adopt the child, he would be willing to make a lump sum support payment before agreeing to give up his rights, so it's not like he's trying to get out of 'paying' anything. But nope, she wants a weekly check.

And why am I worried about this chic? She involved me by continually contacting me and harassing me. I dont' like drama, I don't like trash, and I don't like either in my life and I especially don't like my daughter's support being threatened. And I am very aware her child is entitled to support, however my child is also entitled to continue the support received and for this woman to tell me she will get it 'all' for her child is absurd. I don't have the time or patience to be in and out of court for the next 18 years having to defend what a court has already ordered for my child. My child is my first priority and I won't have her subjected to a bunch of bs, which this whole situation is.

anyway, for those of you who gave me decent advice and some good points to think about, I thank you. For those of you who are so judgmental, I hope you never find yourself in this position, because no one is a winner in any of this and hope you feel better with yourself.[/quote]

Typical be made and worried about the other woman. Stay with him and keep posting the drama here. Summer evening drama shows are in reruns.
Or realize this guy is a loser. And a piss poor role model for all kids involved. Especially for a girl who will seek a man to be with who is just like her daddy.[/quote]

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