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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Define messy. Do you clean the kitchen before going to bed? Or is he waking up to last night's dinner mess each morning? Do you throw clothes on the floor?  Are you eating on the couch and leaving crumbs all over? [/quote]

OP here. Meaning us leaving dishes in the sink from the evening before, not wiping down the counters, maybe some clothes on the floor, makeup on the bathroom counter, etc. I do clean up frequently, its just the periods of time when things aren’t clean that are causing the issues. [/quote]

Sounds pretty filthy, but he shouldn’t “blow up”! That said, if my partner was messy like that, I couldn’t deal. I would POLITELY and directly discuss it. [/quote]

Agreed. Maybe she can use him for a bit to get her act together. Really those minor clean ups are expected of everyone if you want to run a household and raise kids, so it's best to learn how to do them after use. But the blowing up says to me that he can't control himself and there will be another expectation hoop for her to jump as soon as this one is a habit. Is he working on his behavior as much as you are working on your cleanliness?[/quote]

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