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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You sound incompatible, no matter what. The important question for you is whose perspective on cleanliness lies outside the mainstream -- his or yours? [/quote] OP here. I’ve been working on trying to clean more. But I’m wondering if his reaction is overblown?[/quote] It doesn’t matter if it’s overblown. It’s how he rolls. Once you add kids to the mix, that sort of reaction is a disaster. My dh has issues around clutter. It’s a childhood trigger for him. It’s great that I understand that, but it’s still really painful and annoying to live with. It’s hard to avoid clutter with kids. If he’s blowing up now, it won’t get better. You have to figure out if you’re okay living with someone who has that reaction to everyday messes. [/quote]
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