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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. It was a work acquaintance who works across the country and is also married with young kids. She is leaving the company, moving abroad, this was a final work event she traveled for. He said it wasn’t planned, there had never been inappropriate communication (they’d met once before and never worked together). They were with a large group and were socializing but not spending time just the two of them talking, left separately at the end of the event, ran into each other at the conference hotel after had left. Talked in the hall and she invited him for a drink and he stupidly agreed and then ….

He swears on the lives of our children that it was one time, he’s never so much as flirted with anyone before, it was stupid and he regrets it and is deeply remorseful. [b]Cries daily and is in therapy, speaking with clergy. :P [/b] Wants to make it work if we can but also says he knows if he loses me it’s his fault.

While I have NO reason to trust him since he broke my trust, maybe I am an idiot, but I believe he is remorseful and this isn’t something he has done before. That doesn’t mean I’m going to stay with him. [/quote]

This is a red flag.  This is an extreme overreaction to 1x cheating and would make me concerned he had been having a legit affair for an extended period of time.  He’s probably crying because he got caught and lost his AP. [/quote]

I can't speak to either side from any sort of personal experience, but I bet if I had done that I would cry every day about the terrible mistake I had made. It would kill me to have hurt my spouse so badly. [/quote]

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