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Several thoughts:

This must be your oldest child, for you two to be unaware that tweens and teens can turn temporarily into little monsters on the path of adolescence! This particular tween has a dying father. Of course there are ugly emotions in there. She needs help to process her life right now, not irate fathers breathing down her neck.

Your husband is out of line, and I wonder at his maturity level and general notion of his role as a father vis-a-vis his daughter is he's furious at this text. Why is that word so triggering to him? 
Did he call a girl that, once upon a time? The child in question hardly knows what it means. It's just a word, like all the rude words tweens like to brandish to rebel and show how edgy they are. Your husband mustn't take the bait.

[b]The REAL monsters are the grown ups who would disturb the last days of a terminally ill parent and their exhausted caregiving spouse with anger. Please find the right, calming and healing words to talk about this, otherwise do not talk about it. Do not go there guns ablazing. There is a special place in hell for you if you do.[/b]
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:lol:  :lol: 
What a piece of work you are.
OP has a obligation to her family and no one else except in a cursory way. If she chooses to fo more, that is voluntary.

I would have shut this down sooner, so I think OP is more tender hearted than me which means she doesn't deserves your barbs. There is also a special place in hell for you too, PP.

OP, do right by your DD. Put your DH in charge of protecting her. At this point, his instincts are better.

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Can we at least agree that all the places in hell are special? No one deserves a more special place in hell than anyone else.[/quote]

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