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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find that if I make a judgement about what she is wearing, and this is especially true of girls, I am bringing my own bias and judgement from when I was growing up, which I'm pretty sure is perpetuating the stereotypes that we are all trying to avoid and dismiss for this next generation. So I am now staying far away from not only commenting but looking! That said, at 14 I no longer buy their clothes. They can thrift for what they want and that suits me fine. When we need to go to a dressy event, they have no problem wearing something "appropriate"[/quote] Same. I make no judgments. I set no boundaries. DD is perfectly able to figure out how to dress for the occasion. I know others may judge her or me for how she dresses, AND that always would be true no matter how she dressed. And I'll admit to being a bit shocked out how much you all seem to shame your daughters. . . .[/quote]
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